Whether it's for the promiscuous or generally intrigued, the musician and influencer, Melli Monaco, left little to the imagination explaining: the secrets to having sex on the first date.
Who Is Melli Monaco?
Known for her impeccable beauty, comedic characteristics, and musical talent, Melli Monaco is a French native, born and raised in Neuilly-sur-Marne, an urban suburb of Paris.
The brown skin baddie, who reportedly had a troubled upbringing in her place of birth, later moved from "the City of love" to Atlanta, Georgia (USA), where she'd progress her skills as an artist.
Before making her move to the "land of the free", the "Birkin Baggage" lyricist managed to alleviate wounds from her detrimental past by finding peace in music, specifically listening to French acts like Booba, Doc Gynéco, and the hip hop collective, Saïan Supa Crew.
Later moving to Los Angeles, California, in 2019, the influential star debuted her first music project with "War", in which she was heard discharging her experiences living in the United States. Monaco followed up "War" with an array of singles including "Face", "Bounce", and her most recent bop, "Marché (Walk)".
The Secrets To Smashing On The First Date (Video)
How do you have sex on a date? We're no sex experts, but it surely depends on your "level of game", and this isn't limited to flirtatious conversations as it also entails a person's dress sense, confidence and attitude; how they eat, and smell, and that's not even the tip of the iceberg.
Although we'd love to deliberate our own methods with you, we'll just briefly explain what Monaco proposed. Explained from a female's perspective, "how to make a woman want you sexually" is an exceptional dating guide, with the added to touch of humour; a highly desirable quality Monaco endures, in fact, the quality's great for a partner.
Disclaimer: Monaco's opinions are her own, and what sexually attracts her isn't likely going to be the same as your next date's affections. Tanizzle takes no responsibility for your actions, and like some people, we strongly recommend using Drake lyrics for pickup lines: "that p*ssy knows me better than I know myself" - joke, please don't!
Sex On The First Date: A Brief Guide
Don't jump straight in. Unless you're extremely lucky not to turn off your date, don't be quick to enable sexual activities or suggest anything deemed "thirsty", as you'll unlikely succeed. According to Monaco, "that turns women off, even if she was probably wanting to". In a nutshell, don't make her believe she's a "sex object".
Look and smell dangerous. Look dangerous? This, of course, depends on the person's attractions. If there's any truth in "love at first sight", it's reasonable to believe that first impressions, on the visual side, carries a lot of weight. Monaco suggested wearing dark garments - perhaps a men's leather biker jacket - to give the impression of a strong and protective man.
In terms of smell, let's be honest, not everyone has a pleasant natural scent, however, according to Monaco, it would be "a plus" if one has a decent odour for a chance to attract her. If it wasn't obvious already, you wouldn't go on a date smelling like sh*t, so always consider an eau de parfum to add to your charm. Although we haven't tried it, Monaco insists on Tom Ford, so why not try this Tom Ford Noir Extreme fragrance.
Too Nice? Say Hello To The Friendzone!
How to get out of the friendzone? When communicating your way out of the friendzone, Monaco suggests that you avoid being too friendly to prevent being kept there. Of course you need to "be kind", but if you intend to be more than friends, you need to make it abundantly clear; but not rudely. For example, "don't give her half compliments" with words like "you kinda look nice," she said.
Adding: "don't judge her for looking sexy [if] you actually notice it, and appreciate it... let her know". We strongly agree with this, but you've got to find the right balance with words or you may appear desperate, and worse yet, forceful - resulting in sexual harassment, a crime in most parts of the western world.
Innuendos: The Talk's Innocent But Naughty!
Use the power of innuendos. Let's start by explaining what that is. According to Google, an innuendo is "an allusive or oblique remark or hint, typically a suggestive or disparaging one". Whether intentional - in this case it would be - or not, provoking thoughts that could be interrupted suggestively may stimulate one's senses.
Giving a hilarious example, Monaco said: "my friend came over and destroyed my vase, and the whole floor was wet". In addition to the friend, the vase was a primary subject, however, the words "destroyed" and "wet" could potentially be perceived entirely different in the date's mind.
She added: "obviously we're talking about a vase 'supposedly', but in her mind she's like, oh, the floor was wet, ok, my p*ssy could be wet too." The process can also be associated with subliminal messaging, affecting someone's consciousness without them even noticing it - umm, about that... did we say that we take no responsibility for your actions?
What's The Triangle Gaze?
Make a deep connection, focus on her features. The triangular gaze (also known as the "triangle gaze") relates to the movement of a person's eyes when communicating with another, in which, three points of the face (both eyes and mouth), are commonly focused on in a clockwise - or the latter - gesture. Following the shape of a nabla (an upside down triangle), it's achieved by staring into the person's left eye, then their right, followed by their mouth.
In addition to having at least one sustained eye contact in order to maintain a connection, gazing at someone's lips affectionately may give them the impression that you want to kiss them. Irrespective of whether it's the eyes or mouth, if you truly like what you see, we think you shouldn't hesitate in telling them how you feel, as it comes across more genuine.
What's Reasonable Touching On A Date?
Accidentally touching her, appropriately. We felt the need to emphasize "appropriately" because we're one the same page as Monaco, who said: "do not go and touch the p*ssy accidentally... or the a*s, or the t*tties," or she could think, "what the f*ck is wrong with you". Moreover, you could also avoid a prison sentence.
Other than her face, consider brushing her shoulder, arm, hand, or the lower back, all the while baring in mind that it was accidental, at the least. No offence, but if common sense is something you possess, you wouldn't be doing it for every limb she has repetitively, because that would be weird; raising suspicions, and you may be labelled a pervert.
Considering it works on Monaco, she had this to say: "since it was an accident, she's going to start thinking, yo, ok, he touched me... that was very nice... so I'm wondering, if he grabs me for real and with intention, how's that going to feel," she explained.
Intentionally touching her, appropriately. This idea could be combined with flirtation and compliments, and shares similarities to our last guide about "accidents". Consider this scenerio: she's a fitness enthusiast, and you admire her arms. You then reach out and handle an arm before saying, "damn, you workout girl," whilst expressing a sense of astonishment - applauding her efforts.
What could this lead to? It could make her blush, as praise for hard work not only motivates people to continue doing the calibre work they want to see, but the person should experience an euphoric feeling in the resultant surge of dopamine, a chemical released in the brain - learn about the biological basis of love.
When Should You Kiss On A Date?
Go for the kiss, but only when the mood is evident. The "mood" in this instance will only be felt if you haven't disparaged or put off your interest. Picture the date going well as a result of following this guide, step-by-step, and there's no indication of an impending "friendzone ticket" with your name it. Read her body language, and then ask yourself:
Was she giggling at my humour? How did she react to my innuendos? Was she blushing? Was she staring at me intimately with lust eyes? After my accidental touches, did she look comfortable? The questions are endless, but the general gist is to avoid making a fool out of yourself, as you may get swerved (when someone avoids something, in this case she turns her head away) if you read the signs wrong.
What's the slow kissing technique? As it sounds, the slow kissing technique begins relatively gentle before gaining momentum. Although it could lead to a full-blown make-out session, with tongues wagging and all, that should be avoided as it's more about a "softer" approach; with light pecks on the cheek - or neck area - slowly working your way to the lips.
"Go for the cheek first because, this is safer," Monaco said. Adding, "especially if she's not ready, it's safer for you and for her. You go to cheek and see her reaction." At this point, you need to momentarily cease your attempts at kissing her to read her - well. If your due diligence proves correct and she reacts positively - smiles, giggles, leans in for more - you're in there. On the unfortunate side, if she dodges the kiss, "you already know what the f*ck is going on, do not go for the mouth after that," Monaco said.
What Else Do I Need To Know?
A lot more, but you'll need to watch the above video for in order to beef-up your "dating game". On that note, we honestly hope that you've learned something new and "wisely" implement these ideas in an "appropriate" manner. Furthermore, don't ever make a person feel like they're a piece of meat just for sex. As aforementioned, if your date's aware of your intentions, the better.
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